In memory of Graham Howes: saving lives, changing lives

Graham Howes lived for the ocean. Known for his fearless riding, sharp wit, and the unmistakable energy he brought to every beach, Graham helped shape modern kite culture in South Africa and around the world.

Through Dirty Habits, his films, events, and magnetic personality, he built a global community of wind chasers, thrill-seekers, and ocean lovers who saw him not only as an athlete but also as a friend, a mentor, and a spark that lit up every session. He made the ocean feel like home, whether you were a world-class pro or standing on a board for the very first time.

When Graham tragically lost his life at sea while doing what he loved most, that world fell silent. His passing sent a shockwave through the community he helped create, leaving an emptiness where his laughter, courage, and sense of adventure had always been.

In the days that followed, the extreme-sports world responded with extraordinary love. Kiteboarders, surfers, skydivers, wingsuit pilots, filmmakers, and fans shared stories, celebrating the countless ways Graham had lifted them, pushed them forward, and made them braver. His legacy lives on in the people he inspired and in the ocean he dedicated his life to.

For those closest to him, the depth of that legacy is felt every day.

“When people speak of Graham, the words that come up again and again are life, energy, and kindness,” says his father, Richard Howes. “He had a rare gift; whoever he was with felt seen, cared for, and valued.”

On the day Graham went missing, NSRI crews launched an immediate search that continued through the night in rough, dark conditions. For his family, knowing that the volunteers were out there, tirelessly scanning the shoreline and sea, brought a measure of comfort in the midst of overwhelming heartbreak.

“To know that the NSRI was out there was the best feeling,” Richard says. “People with passion who risk their lives every time they answer the call for help, in all weather, day and night.”

At Station 18, Melkbosstrand, the NSRI team made space for the Howes family, keeping them informed and close throughout the long hours of the search. Their compassion, professionalism, and kindness left a lasting mark, inspiring the family to honour Graham in a way that would carry his spirit forward.

The Howes family has launched a fundraiser to help build a new NSRI rescue craft, one that will proudly bear his name: Graham Howes.

“The NSRI is built on volunteers who give up their time to help others in distress,” Richard explains. “They rely on public support and ask nothing in return.”

For Richard, this act carries deep personal meaning. His father, also named Graham Howes, shared the same lifelong love of the sea. Each time an NSRI rescue vessel launches, Richard mentally adds both names to the list of those honoured and carried with the crew.

“To have a rescue craft named after Graham Howes would be amazing,” he says. “Knowing that Graham continues to sail the sea, helping people in distress.”

The family hopes that this initiative will not only honour Graham’s memory but also inspire others to give, knowing that their support will directly save lives.

“Many people want to help,” Richard says. “But they want a more personal fundraiser. Graham touched so many lives; this way, they can support Graham by supporting the NSRI.”

He believes his son would have been humbled by this tribute.

“Graham had such humility,” Richard says. “He’d be so honoured by this. Water rescue was close to his heart; he was always finding ways to help kids in need through surfing.”

Now, friends, family, and all who were moved by Graham’s life are invited to help bring the Graham Howes rescue craft to life. Each contribution ensures that, every time this vessel launches, Graham’s spirit goes to sea once more, saving lives, changing lives, and creating futures.

“We all know the type of person Graham was,” says Richard. “To support this fundraiser would be the final act of love for Graham. He’ll always be remembered as a kind soul, and having his name on a rescue craft will keep his name alive for a long time.”

To read more about Graham’s story, watch a message from his mother and brother, and make a donation, please visit:

👉 https://www.nsri.org.za/support-us/grahamhowes